□he□eisacertaingraceandcharmth□t□omeswit□beinga□ady.Itis□ot□u□□□bout□utwardappearances,□ut□lsoabout□hewayon□ca□□ies□he□selves□n□conduct□their□ction□.F□r□longt□me,Ididn□□pay□u□hattenti□n□o□□lti□atingthesequaliti□swith□nmyself.Howeve□,□□□havegro□n□lder,Ihavecom□toreali□etheim□orta□ceofembo□□i□gth□essenceo□aladyinmydailylife. The□eisace□t□i□graceandchar□thatcomeswit□beinga□ady.□tisnotjus□ab□utoutwardappe□rance□,butal□oaboutt□ewayone□arriest□ems□lvesandconduc□□□hei□action□.□oralongt□me,Idi□□'tpaymucha□te□tion□o□ultivatingthesequa□itie□□ithi□myself.Ho□e□e□,a□Ihave□rown□lder,Ihavecometor□□lizet□eimportance□fembodyingth□e□s□nce□faladyinmyd□il□life. Ther□isacer□ain□raceandc□arm□□atc□mesw□thbeinga□ady.Itisnotjusta□□uto□tw□rda□pearances,buta□soa□outthe□ayonecarr□esth□ms□lve□andc□nductstheirac□i□ns□Foralon□tim□,Ididn'□pa□muchatte□□iontoc□ltivating□hesequalitiesw□thinmyself.□□wever,asIhavegrownold□r,Ih□vecometoreal□zetheim□or□anceo□embo□yingthe□ss□nceof□lad□i□my□ailylife.<□p> The□ei□acertain□□aceand□harmthatcomeswithb□ingala□y.Itisnotjustaboutou□wardappearances,butal□oab□u□t□ewayone□arriesthemselvesandco□d□ctsth□iraction□.□or□□ongti□e,Ididn'tpay□u□h□ttent□ontocult□vatingthesequ□litieswithinmyself.H□wever,asI□aveg□ownolder,Ihav□cometo□ea□izetheimpor□anceofembo□ying□heessenceofa□a□□inm□dailylife. □□er□isacerta□ngrac□a□dc□armthatcomeswithbeingal□dy.It□snot□ustabou□□utw□rd□ppe□rances,but□lsoab□□□t□ewayo□□c□rriesthemselve□a□d□ond□ctsthe□r□ctions□Foralongtime,Idid□'tpaymu□hattentiontocultiv□□ingthe□equa□itie□wit□inmysel□.Ho□ever,□□Ih□ve□rownolder,□□ave□ometorealizetheimpor□anceofembodyingthee□□enceofalady□nmydailylif□.