Thereisac□□tai□g□a□eandc□ar□thatc□m□s□i□□beingalad□.I□isno□□ust□boutoutwardappearances,□utalsoa□outtheway□n□□ar□ies□□emselvesandcond□ctsthei□□ctions.Fora□□ngt□me,□did□'tpay□□chattenti□ntocu□tiv□ti□g□hesequalitieswithinmy□elf.Howeve□,as□haveg□o□nolder,Ihav□c□metorealizet□eim□□rtanc□ofembodyin□thees□□nceofaladyin□ydailylif□.□> Thereisacert□ingrac□and□h□rmtha□comeswithbei□□alady.□□isnotj□stab□□t□utwardap□earances,butalsoaboutthewayoneca□ries□he□selve□andcond□ctsthei□acti□□s.Foral□□gt□me,I□i□n'tpay□uchat□□ntiont□cultivatingthe□equalitieswi□hinmyself.□owe□er,asIhavegr□□n□lder,I□aveco□e□□reali□e□he□m□ortanceofembodyingtheessen□eofa□adyin□y□ailylife.<□p□ <□□The□eisacerta□ng□acean□c□ar□thatcomeswithbeingalady.Iti□notjustaboutout□ar□app□□r□nce□,but□□soabo□tthew□yonecarri□□th□mselves□nd□onductstheir□ctio□s.For□longtime,Ididn'tpa□m□ch□tte□ti□ntoc□ltivatingt□esequ□litieswithinmyse□□.However,asIhaveg□ownolde□,Ihavecometo□ea□□zetheimportanceofembodyingthe□s□e□ceof□lad□inmydailylife□ The□eisacertaingraceandch□rmtha□com□swithbeinga□ady.It□snotjustabout□ut□ardappearanc□s□buta□soa□outthe□ayonecarriesthems□lve□andcond□ctsthei□a□t□ons.For□longtime,Id□dn'tpaymuch□□te□tiontocultiv□□ingthesequalitiesw□thinmyself.□owev□r□□sIha□egrownolder,Ihavecometor□a□iz□the□□portanc□ofembo□yingtheessence□falady□nmydailylif□.